When the wife is the breadwinner, the Husband must establish himself as 'The Supplier' in alternative ways.

A good wife therefore, is one who allows herself to absorb & develope according to her HUSBAND'S ideals.

A wife is designed to help MATERIALIZE her husband's ideals. So his ideals give meaning to her materialism.

The woman represents the materialistic world that was designed to be attached to G-D as the recepticle of His kindness.

In marriage, man is to represent G-D as the kind supplier of all without any selfish interest. Just Give.

The whole is much greater than the sum of its parts. That's the difference between uniting or just living in peace with another.